Lately, the nightmare of Online Dating has turned into rather the opposite. Suddenly, guysand these are nice, normal, well-adjusted, attractive, healthy guysare coming out of the woodwork and dating me. I changed a few things around about my attitude and my ad, and so far it’s all working out swimmingly.
Since I previously derided the entire Online Dating scene as being for losers and ne’er-do-wells, I thought it only prudent to amend some of my comments and pass on what I have learned about successfully diving into the world of online relationships.
No. 1: You are the reward.
Previously, and probably due to a lack of self-confidence and a dearth of recent dating experiences, when I was preparing for that all-important First Date where one makes one’s First Impression and one makes one’s decision about the all-important Second Date, I would do everything I could to be the best possible me.
January 16, 2004